When someone is in love, we are told that they are as close to being crazy as one can become. They lose all rationale and actually remove themselves from the real world, unintentionally of course.
"Can you think of someone in your life who instantly brings a smile to your face or a warm feeling inside of you? "
=) Hmm…
Now, I’ve often wondered as to why do so many of us women, love romantic movies? I guess we just long for the unpredictability and excitement that being in love brings with it. That gives you hope out there, that there would be a man to sweep you off your feet one day. That’ll change your world radically.
An in-love person will do almost anything many times even placing oneself in danger in order to capture or attempt to capture the lover. Money and time become meaningless.
Even before meeting, having trembling inside like a total idiot trying to find the perfect words to say… Even if it was just a simple “Hello”. There has to be a perfect tone for it. As for us women, we often take long hours in the showers….Trying to imagine the scene that might happen later. Having the utmost impossible sense of taste in clothes all the sudden in choosing what to wear. Whether would it be impressive enough for him, will it be too much or too little, too old school, too sexy…?
Aaahhh the positive intense emotions of pleasure, joy and ecstasy become synonymous with that person and when you think of joy, you think of him. When you think of happiness you think of him. When you feel ecstasy you think of him. When you think of affection you think of him. That's how you know you're in love.
Falling in love becomes effortless when you meet someone compatible. I’ve just listened to how a good friend of mine shared her fairy-tale story to me about an hour ago. And my-oh-my is she head over heels. I envy her. It’s been sometime I’ve actually felt such passion and hunger about love.
Oh for God’s sake it’s been a VERY long time since I’ve recalled how it felt like to be in love in such a way! After years of being as a couple I guess we tend to take advantages and get too comfortable with one another. Passion and romance often dies after the 2nd year and that’s when arguments become your best friend. It’s a never ending routine of the same misunderstandings.
The secret recipes to making love last is in the little things.
Show and Tell, Laughters, Appreciation and Gratitude, Kindness and Just Becauses.
Just Becauses; means there are the things you do for your partner just because. You do not need an excuse, such as a birthday or anniversary, to do little special things for your partner. Be creative and have fun coming up with a list of romantic and whimsical ideas of things you can do to let your partner know that you are thinking of them and to let them know how special they are to you. I’m kinda lazy to explain out the rest. You knowww what I mean.
Well, I’ve obviously been there and done that. To the point of which I can actually become tired of doing so…
I just hope that the most important person in my life reads this. Word by word and understand how I am built by just… romance. Being romantic is as easy as breathing is to me and it’s sad that I expect to be treated the same. I cannot change that no matter how hard I’ve tried. The randomness and spontaneous and brazenness of love is what keeps me going everyday.
It’s what keeps me alive. All of us….alive.
